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Have a Gay Day!

I’ve been away for a long, long time. I know I’m eating my words here when I said that I would go back to regular programming when I haven’t even bothered to post even just a single picture during the whole time. Ack!

I don’t want to bother you with excuses because in the end, I just didn’t write. But honestly, I miss it. And so, perhaps to get me going, I’ll start by sharing a piece of positive news. It is the middle of the week, and sometimes, we just need to get a dose of good vibes to get us through the work week. And sometimes, even if the day sucks or other people suck, we can still turn it around and make something good happen like Dayna Morales. If you don’t know the story, simply click on the link and read it.

I’m simply writing about it because stories like these, no matter how small they seem, affects us all. It shows that there is still discrimination in this world. It shows that we still need to do a lot of work to make changes happen. And by sharing this, just like Dayna Morales puts it, hopefully I will be able to take a small part in informing others and saying, “It [discrimination] isn’t okay.”

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Back to Regular Programming

A lot has happened since my hiatus from blogging. Life happened. That’s just one way of putting it. There were awesome days and not quite fabulous ones. And the latter is just an optimistic way of putting it. You see, I have had a terrible tooth ache that just made me want to shoot myself with a tranquilizer dart. It was so painful, I can’t help but think of crazy things just to keep my mind off of it.

And so, insane that I am or have become, I had a root canal scheduled on my birthday. Yes, you read that right. Nothing is more appropriate than being at the hands of a doctor, just like the day you were born eh? Lols. And at that instant, when the anesthetic kicked in, and all seemed a bit clearer in my head, I thought, “Wow. I am getting old.”

Anyway, I was able to do a lot of things and even tried out most of the cafes on my list. It’s a short list for now, but I assure you, the list is getting longer day by day.

Among other firsts, I was able to watch the Melbourne Symphony Orchestra at Hamer Hall. It was an exceptional and truly eye opening experience into the power of music. If I had a bucket list, listening to a full orchestra would be one.

So,with this and that, I would just like to say “Hello! I’m back. And I will be seeing more of you soon.”

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10 Tipid Tips: Frugal Shopping in Melbourne

For a cheapskate like me, snooping for a bargain is second nature and is always a thrilling challenge. I love finding anything that I can buy with just a gold coin.

Of course, you’ll save more when you don’t spend. But when you have to, these tips just might be useful.

June is the start of the winter season. It is also the start of the end of financial year sale. Everywhere you look, stores are dropping their prices. This is the best time to take advantage of the huge discounts they offer on different merchandise, from clothes to small appliances, and of course furniture.

2. $2 Dollar Shops
If you see a $2 dollar shop in your neighbourhood, I am telling you it is well worth a visit. Sometimes, what you just can’t seem to find at the supermarkets is right there waiting for you. I was able to find anywhere from congee spoons and rolling pins to Halloween costumes here.
Sure it is not as organized as the aisles of a grocery, but I think that it’s part of its charm.

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Take a peek and take your pick. $1 bags of produce can yield a good haul from the market.

3. Markets
When you frequent a market enough, you get to know its inner workings. You start to notice when is the best time to come, what bargains you can expect, and what you can buy at a wholesale price. Don’t go ignoring the $1 bags they offer, because sometimes it isn’t as bad as you think, especially when you need a whole bunch of stuff to cook right away. You just have to scrupulous

4. Sales
It’s true what they say here; when you see it on sale, grab it. You don’t know when the price will go down again. It’s okay to stock up on the essentials like soaps and toothpaste and anything that just seems to run out in your household quicker than you think.

5. Catalogues
Some people don’t like junk mail, any unsolicited material that comes in your mail. But I love catalogues, and that’s where I can find and compare items up for sale. You can also look up at catalogues online, especially ones from supermarkets such as Coles, Woolworths, and Aldi.

6. Furniture
So, how do you furnish an empty house without breaking the bank? First, tell your friends and I’m sure they have stuff they want to part with. Second, look at classifieds on the internet like Gumtree. People would rather see old furniture go to someone else who may need them, rather than just dumping them. So, if you have the means to get them, then do so.

7. Op Shopping
One of the places where people can get a hold of other items at a much cheaper price is opportunity shops or op shops. The goods are donations from good samaritans and deceased estates. So yes, it’s like the “ukay-ukay” back home.

The stock on each store varies, but you’re likely to find heaps of clothing both new and used, furniture, books, and anything under the sun.

8. Free Stuff
You can get free stuff, if you give away stuff. You can visit Ziilch, a site dedicated to recycling and reusing items by giving them away to people who may need them.

9. Groupons
Take advantage of promotions and discount coupons or groupons. They can be worth it, especially when you want to splurge on something.

10. Bulk
The nice thing about supermarkets here is that the price also tells you how much you will be paying for each item. So, if you look closely, you will be able to see how much you are paying for each roll of tissue in a pack.

You can also see how much something is worth in kilos. For example, you might be paying $4 for 250grams of nuts from Brand A, which makes it $16/kg. But if you look at Brand B, it may sell 400grams of nuts for $5, which makes it only $12.50/kg. So, if you know what to look for, you can save where you need and make the most out of your purchase.


Disclaimer: LezGoMelbourne is not paid by nor affiliated with any of the companies, shops, or brands mentioned above (if any). These are LezGoMelbourne’s personal opinions with no intention to cause or do any harm. These tips/guides are not to be taken as fact or absolute. Please consult with a professional for your own counsel.

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Keep Children Safe: The 1in5 Campaign

I was watching The Project on Ten Digital or Channel 10 and their segment on sexual abuse is alarming. It has reminded me that no one is more than vulnerable on this earth than women and children. They are preyed upon by predators in cities, in suburbs, and in every place imaginable place that you can think of.

The statistics show very disturbing figures. 1 in 5 children are abused or sexually molested before the age of 18. And more than 70% will keep quiet about it or hide it.

It makes you think, how far have we really come when it comes to protecting women and children? There is still so much to be done. So, be vigilant, be aware, and be involved on how to keep children safe. Bravehearts urges you to take a stand. Learn more from the campaign 1in5.org.au and help spread the word.

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A Victory for LGBT: US Supreme Court Rules for Equality and Liberty

Great news deserves to be shared!

The Supreme Court of the United States of America finally ruled in favour of and in recognition of the rights and liberties of lesbians and gays. It is a day of many victories – for lesbians and gay couples and families, for equality, for Edie Windsor, and for human rights.
DOMA or Defense of Marriage Act and Proposition 8 are now a thing of the past, as it should be. I think of them as nothing but antiquated and malevolent devices of torture. They should and have now been dismantled into nothing but wreckage. Hooray!

It is a day for celebrations! Even the google search bar is showing some love. See?

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Google is all rainbow!

I cannot express how happy I am about this piece of news. I am happy for lesbian and gay couples who can now freely enjoy and exercise their rights. I am happy for friends who can fully live their lives the way they want it, with the support and recognition of the state and law of the country they belong to. Hopefully, with California now again the 13th state to recognize same sex marriage, the rest of United States of America will follow suit.

Read all about this news on the New York Times or Reuters and on other resources on the web.

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Melbourne Coffee Culture: 10 Cafés I Want to Visit

You probably know by now that one of the things that I love doing is making lists. But what you may not know is that I have a great, big appetite for good food too. (So be forewarned, there will be food posts in the future.) And in Melbourne, it isn’t hard to find.

But it being winter, I can’t help but think of a warm cup of coffee. Coffee culture is alive and vibrant here. Everywhere you turn, there’s a café or a hole in the wall just churning one perfect cup after another. For me, that’s a good excuse to just sit down and enjoy a good brew.

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So, what’s brewing?

I’m not going to pretend that I know a lot about coffee. What I do know, however, is that these cafes have caught my interest for quite a while now and I am more than keen to try each and every one of their special roasts and blends. The list can extend to 20, even 50, but for now, let’s make it short and sweet.

1. Seven Seeds
114 Berkeley St, Carlton
Mon- Sat: 7am-5pm
Sun: 8am-5pm


Brother Baba Budan (Also operated by Seven Seeds)
359 Little Bourke st, Melbourne
Mon – Sat: 7am-5pm
Sun: 9am-5pm

2. Silo by Joost
123 Hardware Street, Melbourne 3000
Mon- Sat: 6:30am – 3:30pm

3. St. Ali
815 Nicholson St,
Carlton North VIC 3054
Mon – Sun: 6am – 6pm

12-18 Yarra Pl,
South Melbourne VIC 3205
Mon – Fri: 7am – 6pm
Weekends:  7am – 6pm

4. Manchester Press
8 Rankins Lane, Melbourne
Mon – Fri: 7:00 am – 5:00 pm
Sat – Sun: 9:00 am – 5:00 pm

5. Marketlane Coffee
Queen Victoria Market
109-111 Therry Street
Melbourne 3000

Mon & Wed: 7am – 2pm
Tues & Thurs: 7am – 3pm
Fri & Sat: 7am – 4pm
Sunday 8am – 3.30pm

Shop 13 Prahran Market
163 Commercial Road

Tues & Thurs: 7am – 5pm
Wednesday 7am – 4pm
Fri & Sat: 7am – 5pm
Sunday 8am – 5pm

6. Axil Coffee Roasters
322 Burwood Rd
Hawthorn, VIC
Mon – Sun: 7:00 am – 4:00 pm

7. Three Bags Full
Corner of Nicholson St and Mollison St, Abbotsford
Mon-Fri: 7am to 3pm
Weekends & Public Holidays 8am – 5pm

8. The League of Honest Coffee
8 Exploration Lane, Melbourne CBD
Mon – Fri: 7am – 5pm


The Brunswick East Project
438 Lygon Street
Brunswick East 3057
Mon-Sat: 7am-5pm
Sun: 8am-4pm

9. Sensory Lab
297 Little Collins St., Melbourne
Mon – Wed: 7:30am -7pm
Thurs – Fri: 7:30am – 9pm
Sat: 8:30am – 7pm
Sun: 9:30am – 7pm

10. Di Bella Coffee Roasting Warehouse
19 – 21 Leveson St., North Melbourne
Mon – Fri: 7am -4pm
Sat – Sun: 7:30am – 4pm

Disclaimer: LezGoMelbourne is not paid by nor affiliated with any of the companies, shops, or brands mentioned above (if any). These are LezGoMelbourne’s personal opinions with no intention to cause or do any harm. These tips/guides are not to be taken as fact or absolute. Please consult with a professional for your own counsel.

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Moving to Australia: 10 Things to Know About Leasing a Property

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You can find some beautiful glasswork in well preserved houses. This one, however, can be found in the RipponLea Estate.

You can find a lot of literature about moving to Australia. That’s one of the first things you notice when you do your research online. There are brochures made by the state and local government which you can download. The wealth of information is out there if you know where to look.

But sometimes all the straightforward information you get out there is not enough. Some of us need to work with the details; some of us need some context so we know when and how we can apply such information.

I would like to think that I am one of those. So let me share with you a bit of what I know about leasing a property in Melbourne.

1. Referrals
Renting out a property includes a referral, either from your personal or professional network. So, it is best to know a couple or so people who know you and can vouch for you. Check with your real estate agency too it written referrals are needed.

2. Inspection Times
You may find yourself walking around a neighbourhood and saw a sign for a unit or house for rent. You don’t just barge in or try to snoop around the property. You have to contact the agent and get the details for an inspection time. Be sure to not be late though as some inspection times can be quite short.

3. Rent Rate
Apartments or houses are most commonly leased on a weekly rate. Don’t forget this as you compute and compare your options. The rent is also paid on a fortnightly basis or every two weeks, unless otherwise specified in your contract.

4. Lease Periods
Apartment units or houses are commonly leased on a yearly basis. Although, you may find some that allows you to rent a place from a monthly basis to a 6-month contract, especially in the city where a lot of travelers transit.

5. Location
Research and know what you are looking for in a neighbourhood. You can situate yourself in proximity to public transportation or to where you are looking to send your kids to school. It all depends on the needs of your family so it’s best to plan your priorities.

6. Furnished or Unfurnished
It all depends on your needs, really. But most of the time, the units or houses for lease are unfurnished so you may want to adjust your budget and expectations accordingly.

7. Utilities
Ask about the utilities you need to pay, the due dates, and where or how you can pay them. Depending on your lease or contract specifications, you may be billed for gas, aside from water and electricity. Other monthly bills you may need to pay are for those that you applied for such as internet, phone, and cable television.

8. Bond
A bond is similar to the security deposit we know back home. Typically, a bond is a month’s worth of rent. Knowing this, you have to allocate a budget for the bond and anywhere between 2 weeks to a month’s worth of rent to be paid in advance when you apply for a lease.

9. Always ask your agent
Do not be afraid to ask your agent anything regarding the house. It’s important to know the condition of the house, how certain amenities work, and what to do when something acts funny. Keep communications line open with your agent. For everything else, the real estate agency will update you if a new agent has been assigned to you.

10. Parking
If you see yourself buying a car in the very, very near future then you need to consider your parking options during your lease. If you leased a self-detached house with its own garage, I doubt you’ll be having problems. But in a crowded city where there is barely space for cars, you need to study your options and research the parking rules regulations in the city. It is best know what parking permits to apply for, what on-street parking rules are in your local area, and the terms in a strata parking in your building.

Resource: Melbourne Parking


Here are other links that you may find useful:
PDF Guide by the Consumer Affairs Victoria on Renting a Home
PDF Relocation Guide to Melbourne by the Government of Victoria
PDF Relocation Guide for Skilled and Business Migrants by the Government of Victoria



Disclaimer: LezGoMelbourne is not paid by nor affiliated with any of the companies, shops, or brands mentioned above (if any). These are LezGoMelbourne’s personal opinions with no intention to cause or do any harm. These tips/guides are not to be taken as fact or absolute. Please consult with a professional for your own counsel.